Most of the luxuries, and many of the so-called comforts of life, are not only not indispensable, but positive hindrances to the elevation of mankind.
I can’t remember where I first heard the reference to Jack Lemmon’s 1965 film “How to Murder Your Wife.” It is a not a very good movie, but I’ve watched it several times in the past year or so (with the sound off all but the first time) just for the townhouse, which really is the central character of the movie. The chief threads that run through the place are white lacquer cabinetry and bentwood chairs — a combination I always love. And there's a fantastic long hall of cabinets (in which the butler stores the stilettos and such of the bachelor's overnight guests). It’s amazing how little you’d have to change (the bed, some curtains, the prop styling) to make the place feel completely current. But what’s amusing is that this, in 1965, was presented as the ultimate bachelor pad.
In this funny piece about searching for a kind of kinship with Melville aboard a cruise ship, this paragraph stuck out at me:
I did manage to make a list of what he and I shared and where our experience differed. I’d booked an inside cabin on the Star Flyer’s bottom deck, hoping to approximate his berth on the Acushnet. I had a gimpy left leg on the trip, just as Melville had as he struggled through the Marquesan jungle; it made me feel close to him. I was mutinous, refusing to snorkel. That was about it. He had had no sunblock, no mosquito repellent, no sorbet course, no piano bar, no steward to turn down his bedspread (no bedspread), no chocolates on his pillow. And yet he produced two bestsellers.
We do have a way of getting in our own way.